Things you should know about me..

A person can be distinguished by what they like and what they dislike. But a real person can be known by the decisions that they make and what choices they take to become a better person. To change the way a person becomes cannot be done by anyone: it takes only you to change your views and opinions on someone, or something. Mostly someone, seeing as a society we conform to other people's beliefs to make them view us in a positive light but when it comes to me I try to convey my beliefs in ordinary conversation. 
Sometimes it fails but most of the time I have a strong view on things. 
Like recently I've been forced to relive what I truly believe in to help a friend. I believe that being a good friend does not necessarily mean that you agree with what they are saying when you don't truly believe it but to show them what you believe in and to help them make a decision. Not to have one side of the story and make that decision one sided but to have both sides of the blade before making a sensible decision. 
But to all those out there in a pickle, I say this to everyone I meet whatever ethnicity or sexual preference or personality type, I say that if you have at least one friend who is behind you through thick and thin and that friend truly understands you, you will never go wrong, you will never be alone, no matter what idiots or freaks come along as long as you have one person who believes that you're a good person then you'll get through it. You will make the right decisions, not for anyone else, but for yourself. 
If you have a friend like that, then NO ONE EVER, will get between you. And to all those (anons on formspring) who tried to get me down..it worked for a bit but then it just got boring. A good friend to you, who helps you through shit, is a friend for life. 
This has been said to me by the best person (in my eyes) in the world: my nan <3 and that is why I will never go wrong from now on. 
And if you're thinking 'omg she's gone mad this is planet earth you know?' but if you had the friends that I have you'd understand that I will never ever give up on them and they will never give up on me. 
This is to all of my best friends out there: the old and the new I LOVE YOU ALL <3 
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